HOW TO AVOID DATING AN ABUSIVE CREEP
CNN (The Frisky) Judy McGuire sez
[ Here are some behaviors to watch out for:
Too close, too fast: After years of dating ambivalent men, it can be refreshing when a guy comes on strong. But if he's declaring his undying love on your second date, you could be looking at trouble.]

December 1, 2008 Glamour Magazine:
Author Penny Wrenn sez:
[ 'When Should You Sleep With Him?'
Not long ago, hoping to silence my moaning about a particularly rough dating drought, a girlfriend volunteered to fix me up with her old friend T. One e-mail from him and I was smitten. After a day of message volleying, we agreed to [...]

Martha Irvine, Associated Press writes: 
[This month in Greensburg, Pa., three high school girls who sent seminude photos and four male students who received them were all hit with child pornography charges. And in Newark, Ohio, a 15-year-old high school girl faced similar charges for sending her own racy cell phone photos to classmates. She eventually [...]

HE: You’re busy? Call me back.
ME: ring ring…. voicemail ….Hi, I’m returning your call….
He didn’t call me back.
3 weeks later…
HE TEXTS: I’ll call you this weekend
No phone call. Yeah, holiday weekend…. what does weekend mean?
Doesn’t matter. Soon was 6:20 PM tonight. Soon came and went. I gave up. I realized Mary was right — [...]

What’s with men text messaging sex talk in the middle of the night? Sure, best guess is they’re drunk.
Possibly having a couple of drinks before going home to their girlfriends or at a bar having a laugh with some buddies.

Sex text ‘is what it is.’ Nothing.

HE: I want to see you
ME: When
HE: Soon

ok…. when is soon [...]

I was dating Ricky — who played handball at the same gym where I worked out. At some point Ben, one of Ricky’s handball buddies said to me, “Ricky is dating other women.” I didn’t believe him.

I asked Ricky — he said, “NO — Ben is jealous and wants us to break up so you’ll go out [...]