October 1, 1971 - November 9, 2009

Well Vanessa’s sweet talker won’t be talking again. He was involved in a gruesome bizarre happening. I’m not going to say anything bad about the dead (I feel bad for his mother.)
Sweet talker was in Vegas gambling, taking pills and drinking. He rarely mixed sex with gambling (he often mixed drugs with alcohol) but something went wrong on November 9th. According to his friend Robbie, he left the black jack table with a woman. Ends up — the woman wasn’t a woman but a man who lured him into her (not) room, tied him up, and shot him.
RIP sweet talking man.
43 comments
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Wow. That’s terrible. Poor Vanessa. She’s going to be heartbroken.
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She will take it hard. To tell you the truth — I saw the LATE sweet talker’s Facebook friends list and a good number of them could have been men in drag.
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That’s a mean thing to say, Bryan, but you’re right. Sweet-talker seemed to attract BIG women.
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[Sweet-talker seemed to attract BIG women]
I hope you’re not referring to my size, BeBe.
I am upset that he’s dead. He messed up nice women’s heads. And he was a liar. But dead? I never thought it would end this way.
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Kenny Rogers - The Gambler
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNnrTNFWcsg
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How do they know it was a man who killed him?
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Seems as though sweet talker copped a deal with the FBI or some law enforcement agency and was wired — they heard the whole thing happen.
Permalink8
YIKES!
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Why didn’t they bust into the room and save him?
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Ummmm. Maybe because they already got the information they needed and therefore had little use for the late sweet talking man. Why put one of their men at risk? He had it coming, for sure. If for NO OTHER reason — he had it coming for how he treated Vanessa.
Permalink11
Oh Bryan. You always come to my rescue. xoxox
Permalink12
I am miserable at the moment. Wondering if I had played my cards differently would he still be alive.
Permalink13
Vanessa — you’re forgetting he didn’t want to be with you enough to make plans. Remember? He was never going to be what you need.
Permalink14
This will cheer you up. I like the dialogue at the table in the beginning….
PULP FICTION
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWr_eSfTtIw
Permalink15
And I like the dancing.
Permalink16
Well I guess you are now forced to move on with you life and find a gentleman who will treat you right!
Permalink17
Agree.
Permalink18
I saw “Memphis” on Broadway this afternoon. Really good.
There was a line - a woman said, “how do you know when a man is lying” and the response was “when he opens his mouth.”
Maybe it’s not us, Vanessa.
Permalink19
Don’t feel bad. I ignore red flags all the time.
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I’m not one to give advise.
Permalink21
How are you, Van?
Permalink22
Not good.
Permalink23
I had a dream he was still alive and he wasn’t an immature a-hole. But I woke up and remembered how much he hurt me.
Thanks for asking, Bryan. Nothing a good run and time won’t fix.
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Count your blessings, Vanessa. He might have broken your heart but thank goodness he didn’t give you a disease.
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I wouldn’t have seen him if I thought he was a germ-breeder. If I wanted germs I would have lots of dates.
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How are you doing, Vanessa?
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I hope you get a chance to see your ‘big poppa’ Van.
The Notorious B.I.G. - Big Poppa
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phaJXp_zMYM
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ME TOO!!!
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I wouldn’t count on anyone showing up on your stoop, Vanessa. It’s just not in your cards at this point in your life.
I hate roller coasters. Every time I have contact with a man I find myself on an emotional roller coaster. Not fun at all. Especially when they tease.
Permalink30
Where’s Nightflyer when we need him?
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Probably working and playing hard.
Permalink32
Percy Sledge - When a Man Loves A Woman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lp7FtJXp7k
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I was reading the comments about this YouTube and they were talking about how when says ‘when a man loves a woman’ it sounds like ‘When a magget loves a wombat.’
Permalink34
Time to dance again on DEAD SWEET TALKER’S grave.
LUCKY #5
Mambo Nr 5
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNlbPFHtnGg
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That felt good.
I wonder if anyone misses DEAD SWEET TALKER.
I don’t see how they could, Van — from what you have said he was a major SICKO.
Permalink36
I am so ready to meet someone who I like and trust.
Permalink37
Me too. I miss Abby.
Bryan said on November 12, 2009 at 9:53 am:
[To tell you the truth — I saw the LATE sweet talker’s Facebook friends list and a good number of them could have been men in drag.]
Agree. He doesn’t have any lesbians amongst his Fbookers.
Lesbians are just smart enuff to avoid his kind.
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Vanessa — you said this about sweet talker a couple of days after he died — on November 12, 2009 at 10:29 am:
[I am upset that he’s dead. He messed up nice women’s heads. And he was a liar. But dead? I never thought it would end this way.]
Sometimes wise-guys lose.
Permalink39
Are we a bunch of bitter women, ladies?
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But think about it. Sweet-talker’s grave stone:
Here LIES sweet talker.
Permalink41
No lie there.
Permalink42
It’s not just him. Men don’t like confrontation so they lie.
Permalink43
You got that right, Vanessa.
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