Sexual Timing
December 1, 2008 Glamour Magazine:
Author Penny Wrenn sez:
[ 'When Should You Sleep With Him?'
Not long ago, hoping to silence my moaning about a particularly rough dating drought, a girlfriend volunteered to fix me up with her old friend T. One e-mail from him and I was smitten. After a day of message volleying, we agreed to talk on the phone that night.
T. sounded as charming as he was online. I wanted to speed things along—finally I’d found someone worthy of my attention—and I suggested we meet right that minute. He agreed and rushed over to my apartment. From then on we were coupled up, quite literally, since we spent most of our time horizontal in his place or mine.
Soon enough, though, the mornings after brought a sinking “this isn’t going to work” feeling. Charmingly boyish now seemed plain immature, and enthusiastic was more like hyper. The more time we spent vertical, actually talking, the less I liked him.]
68 comments
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Required reading, ladies.
OK, and gentlemen, too.
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Yeah, been there and Never going back.I had a chic with me that was like a mythical author on meth.I kid you not.Things out the mouth not in it. I got up for bottled water and skipped..
I prefer to make a good run then a bad stand..Fuck that.What’s wrong with a quiet conversation chillin’ and gellin’ ? Enjoying each other like a Fine wine baby..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Thanks for the welcome, Nightflyer.
[I got up for bottled water and skipped.. I prefer to make a good run then a bad stand]
Yes, I’ve been there. It got so bad that just walking into a bar would make me claustrophobic. A guy has 4 minutes to impress me and if he doesn’t — I’m back home at my computer. Smart men turn me on and I figure a smart man will know how to find me. My father says I’m wrong. But I don’t care. Who’s perfect? Not me. So I’m wrong about thinking a guy is going to find me. It’s not like I’m sitting home doing nothing — I enjoy my work.
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BeBe-(Thanks for the welcome, Nightflyer. A guy has 4 minutes to impress me and if he doesn’t — I’m back home at my computer. Smart men turn me on and I figure a smart man will know how to find me. )
We found each other didn’t we? surrounded by friends.This could be good and fun to boot.My pops thinks like your dad.Their cool and have our best six in mind.They mean well.
But,our paths are our own.Sometimes, the best way to find yourself and your soul mate is by not looking.Sometimes, it just happens by complete accident..Cya! @ 2200hrs.
Peace
Nightflyer
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Opps,It’s 1900hrs.Millie knows why.That stays between her and me.I would like a LG screen and an ash tray for my cigars and our Ice Hockey game.The NY Rangers or else.
The times you hustle your ass off to make someone so happy. I could be busted up and feeling down. I could look up and see your face and it doesn’t matter to me how you
look.When I see you smile back at me saying where going to make It baby.Everything’s going to be alright.It means everything to me. For me.That’s love and you know your blessed.Your not a princess and this ain’t fairytale.But in a cool place.It’s real fuckin’ beautiful? Your smart woman and I know you understand?
It means-We’re honest.Everyone we love we place ahead of ourselves. How beautiful is that? For me.That’s I feel and love.I’m a professional at my work. But I feel?..
I say don’t be that person that blows it.Don’t make it late.Just Live & love.The world is crazy enough without our help. Lets chill and keep it free & real. We don’t need anything else.
I keep it simple.We got each other.That’s all I need. I need to live to make you smile.
Could it really be? I don’t want you guys balling your eyes out.No tissue boxes here.Ok ?
Peace, Operators.I can see it.My care pkgs are going to be good.Soon- We’re going back.
I’ll give you guys my APO address before I leave and ship from FT Bragg or FT Benning..
De Oppresso Liber
Ya! Dig? We can wigg out now.It’s ok.We got each other.Like I said..I’m be coming home again…A year from june I’ll be in a undisclosed place..A week..Five weeks. Nine months.. The unconventional Army and unconventional deployment.We get it done..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4qsIi-9gFY
Will see each other again..When I’m home.I promise.It’s a year away..But, it comes fast..Soon it will be.So, lets get tuned up for now.Thanxs, Cool cats & citizens.The Dogg. My tail wags and That’s Cool..BeBe..Wear you love like Heaven.This is for you…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-FyHKHbm8Y
Guess, I got what I deserved..http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C53QAuOoSgc
baby blue..
Peace, cool cats..Spec 4 Mafia..The Dogg..
Nightflyer (SOF) Direct Action Operator
Army Airborne X18 (Tip of the sword.)
Skull & Cross Bones W/ Beret….
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Guess, I got what I deserved again..Baby Blue..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C53QAuOoSgc
Peace, cool cats..Spec 4 Mafia..The Dogg..
Nightflyer (SOF) Direct Action Operator
Army Airborne X18 (Tip of the sword.)
Skull & Cross Bones W/ Beret
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[Wear Your Love Like Heaven]
Donovan. You made me cry, Nightflyer.
[Baby Blue.-- bad finger.]
You’re a good man.
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[De Oppresso Liber]
It is US Army tradition that the phrase is Latin for “To Liberate the Oppressed.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/De_Oppresso_Liber
Peace, Nightflyer and friends.
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[I can see it.My care pkgs are going to be good]
Yes, put some money on that one. It’s a lock.
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Sorry, baby. I hope I used my 4 minutes well. I live to always make the people I love smile.I ‘ll Always be here for you and yours as long as I can. And when I leave..I’ll be back . Promise.As long as your a NY Rangers fan.I keep it deep. I don’t want to say anything more..I have Opsec and Persec reasons..Besides, you made me feel real good already.Thank You! bebe.Cya! in the AM.say breakfast @ 0900 hrs.Nite Nite
t’s cool & easy.I dig you! It’s the things you say and how you feel that make feel at ease.
Thank You..
Peace
Babe..
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I added a new page — it’s on the top right hand side of the blog. It says MUSIC and it will be a compilation of songs commenters have linked. Enjoy….
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People hang on.I need to speak my mind to Sarah.Your fucking awesome. Oh, Your very good.But, Sarah- (It is US Army tradition that the phrase is Latin for “To Liberate the Oppressed.) No!.not just Army.It’s a X18 Special Force Operator phrase. It’s earned.
It’ a honor achieved by few…Many fail. Don’t be one.That’s the only Phrase recruites need to know.But, my sarah- Your very good. I got some really good intel.If you ever want to chill and chew thoughts.Hit me up.Millie can hook you up.So, far we learned alot and I learned from you.Your G/F must be very cool.I know you are!.She’s a lucky gal.I have at least a dozen or two (MOS) You could fill easy.
I thought about what you said, awhile back concerning sextexting and being away from a civilian loved one..It’s safe..It’s home..It’s too a loved one. It makes perfect sense…
I can’t belive I’m still talking. I’m smacked up big time on something called Rusty Nailes. Lol..Anyways, Thank You! all for being friends. Very cool. Back to my hockey game..
Nite Nite..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Here I go again…
Fuck this..We’re doing shots around the table..You cats in? Wait! next round..We’re lighting up the pad..You dudes wanna drive our Deuce? it’s called hit-1 Pop -UH -60 Blackhawk..
I’ll bring the My Team.(3c) miles no problem..We drive @ Night.The Quiet Professionals..
But, not now. It’s Free Time with you. The fire’s burning and I’m blasted chillin’ & relaxin
It’s honest..and never a lack of confidence to get the job-objective-and our mission done.
Peace Operators..I’m fucking drunk..It’s cus of BeBe..She touched me. I got weak.Lol..
Nightflyer
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Nah… you’re never weak, Nightflyer. Just drunk.
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Sounds like you’re having fun, Nightflyer. I”m going to work on the link below — make a list of songs to add. No rush. I’m going through old threads and you’ve given us plenty of tunes along the way that we’ll be able to listen to.
http://nailtales.com/wordpress/music/
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BeBe-(Nah…you’re never weak, Nightflyer. Just drunk.)
Yeah, Maybe so? it’s cus of you.I can prove it. Lol. I wear my heart on my sleeve…
1. I dig you! It’s the things you say and how you feel that make feel at ease…
2. We found each other didn’t we? surrounded by friends..
3. Thanks for the welcome, Nightflyer…
4. hope I used my 4 minutes well. I live to always make the people I love smile…
No! being fucking drunk I still got this..You touched me..That’s the fun part..
Nite Nite Bebe..
Nightflyer
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Your a swwetheart..and I don’t have to know you…
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Naah,It’s cool.Just razzin you…It’s about the heart..All we have is each other..and That’s
a good thing..It’s everything..
Maybe one more beer..I promise ..
Peace
Nightflyer
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You’re a momma’s boy, Nightflyer. That’s a nice quality. Makes you qualified to take care of your ppl.
You are not afraid of responsibility. Your mother did a good job. You have to know the feeling of security to help others feel secure.
On a lighter note… children get their rhythm from their mother.
Sarah’s working on the MUSIC page.
http://nailtales.com/wordpress/music/
And you loved your teacher. Lucky you, huh? You’re a pleaser.
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Agree.
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You fuckin’ A right.I’ll always love my mommaShe’s my very fabric.But, we have pops too..My mom loves it when people or her friends come up to her still braggin’ today about me being a beret.HS and College Pro. You know this to be true…
Soo, what does it mean when you say -on lighter side? do you mean my experiences with my crew and my profession or did you forget about dad? Very Nice Milllie..
Sorry, Kill Shots!! just chillin boozing and being straight.You need to be squared away by
0500 hrs..If you like to figure me out.Oh, I’m not a child or children.I’m a son..xoxox
Peace
Nightflyer
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Contractual sext — no harm. Milicia needs to put her thinking cap on and see what type of sext laws are other there. Probably none — unless it involves a social security number. I’m not certain about this. Milicia can think about this when she’s not going out or doing blows. Her blows are unbelievable.
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Wait, Millie..I get it!..Thanxs, Ladies..It took awhile..Lol..I’m just saying..Nite Nite..
Peace
Nightflyer
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I didn’t forget about your father. I can only recognize the love between a mother and son because I’m a mom — but my father did say to me (something he saw on a talk show) that women raise sons, men raise men. But sometimes a mom needs to step in and tell her son to man up. Good mom, favorite teacher, great dad. It shows.
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Vanessa- Who cares? Lol.If your son has the flip let him dip.If your daughter has the cell. Let her gel.There old enough to know right from wrong.@ the end of day. It’s about choices
Trust is powerful..
Nite Nite..
Nightflyer
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Last comment. What I am saying is that sext should be protected. I’m not concerned that it happens. Yes, trust is powerful. In fact — I’m going to go offline and sext.
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Aren’t you a pearl.IThat’s cool but, I need the real deal..I’m getting another a drink..
Hey-Millie I tried to post pixs of mom and pops but, you keep missing them.Here’s another one of moms and little Sofia.Looking to bounce..Ck out little sofia..She has that Nighflyer look. Go figure..
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Hey- Ladies..My Mom and little Sofia.. [nightflyer -- it's Millie -- I put the picture in another file -- cute girls. -- your own url] When I treat everyone to a candle lite dinner..Thank God..I got a support system..Sofia’s a pistol and my mom is cool and not unlike you guys..
Just a tad mellow.Once sofia is straight!! My Mom and Dad turn it up. It’s good times..
One more draft..WTF..it’s only 0000 HRS..Cya! guys..It’s been fun..
You wished you had me waiting for you at home..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Opps.
http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll263/Nightflyer_photo/ilikethispic.jpg
Opss
http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll263/Nightflyer_photo/hellyaa.jpg
Thank You! for everything..
Nightflyer
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http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll263/Nightflyer_photo/awesomepic-1.jpg
http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll263/Nightflyer_photo/3843412_4579725-2-2-1.jpg
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Has anyone seen this catalogue of thigh-high stockings? An old boyfriend sent me a note saying, “Would love to see you in some thigh-highs,” with this link::
http://www.barenecessities.com/catalog.asp?drv=&nxs=34&size=&vendor=&price=&style=49
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Wow, Milicia — you know how I LUV thigh-highs And they come in plus sizes…. where’s my credit card….. I’m ordering a pair today.
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I’ve shopped from the catalogue many times. In fact — I’m wearing these stockings and garters today! How bizarre….
http://www.barenecessities.com/Felina_product_FELINA2198_,size,.htm
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Really, BeBe?
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Absolutely.
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MILICIA — don’t play innocent with us. We know better. Don’t think we forgot about those years you were married to MR. ROBINSON!
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Are you referring to Milicia’s MILF days, Vanessa?
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Our Milicia…. no — she wasn’t a MILF. She was just married to Mr. Robinson.
Back on topic - most of my sexts include thigh-highs in the jpeg.
Except this is one my favorite sext outfits:
http://www.barenecessities.com/Dolce–Gabbana_product_DOLCEGABBANAM21710_,size,.htm
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Gotta go…. I have a blow @ 2 PM.
Later….
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Poor Vanessa. Maybe one day someone will see her hot body in real life. I can’t figure out why she can’t get a date.
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At least I go out on dates every now and then. Do you guys remember the date I had with the man I met walking on the beach in South Beach last year?
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OMG — I do. You were lucky to have gotten out of that one alive. You should tell BeBe and Mary about it as a warning.
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BTW ladies… can we agree these men look hot? Guess which pair Stephen ordered…
http://www.mensunderwearblog.com/
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Bryan — stop hijacking Nail Tales. Tell your stories about men once I get http://www.maletales.net online.
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Yes, Sarah the librarian. I can wait.
But did it EVER enter your mind that some women LIKE looking at men’s bodies? You know, there ARE some heterosexuals out there.
Good-bye Sarah, my dear. I am off today and getting a facial as soon as Stephen gets off of work.
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[Except this is one my favorite sext outfits:
http://www.barenecessities.com/Dolce–Gabbana_product_DOLCEGABBANAM21710_,size,.htm]
Hey Foxy Lady, you can sext yourself in that to Mister Jimi ANY TIME!
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You and me think the same jimi-and that’s cool dude. I dig the chics who like feeling sexy.
It makes me feel good when they show me..Nothing wrong with a good sweat.I think I’ll take a walk to the admin bldg and work on friday Night..
Peace
Nightflyer
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[I think I’ll take a walk to the admin bldg and work on friday Night..]
Nightflyer, you’re bad.
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I think he’s sexy. Did you see the pictures of him in his uniform? Of course you did, Milicia.
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Oh, BeBe — I can reassure you — Mrs. Robinson doesn’t miss a thing.
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I got your six unbugged..Cya! friday Night…..
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJbGd5N6o9o
BeBe- (I think he’s sexy. Did you see the pictures of him in his uniform?)
And how do I look out of my uniforms?…
Peace
Nightflyer
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Wow
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Now THAT’S a weapon — have to handle it carefully
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Sorry, BeBe..I fear I’ve been censorship to psyche ops X Field 37.It’s ok baby.The only thing that matters is we got to spend some time together up close and in my boxer briefs..
“Only” you got to see..The way I wanted anyhow. BeBe blue.Truth & heart i$ freedom..
Guess that’s all I got to say..
Peace
Nightflyer
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At least, we dig each other.Will always have each other when everything else is gone…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIUA9105GKI
even in my boxer briefs and a M-4 MWS….When everything is gone.Nite Nite..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Yeah, I saw it, Nightflyer. Milicia and Sarah try to look out for you guys.
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You’ll always have me..When everything else is gone..
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BeBe- (Yeah, I saw it, Nightflyer. Milicia and Sarah try to look out for you guys.)
and it’s a good thing :-))
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[ it’s a good thing :-))]
You’ve got that right, Nightflyer.
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[You’ll always have me..When everything else is gone..]
Thanks Nightflyer.
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[BeBe blue]
Smart boy, Nightflyer.
I’m text obsessed — not to be confused with Vanessa’s issues.
[[Guess, I got what I deserved again..Baby Blue..] says Nightflyer]
Bad Finger — Baby Blue
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C53QAuOoSgc
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Admin Bldg, thursday morning.Supper thursday Night..I can’t wait for friday.I got needs.
She’s pretty happy about it.My girls are going to take it bad when I tell them I’m leaving for Special Ops Training for 3 months starting in june. That’s why I need to love them Hard,.
My special ( LT) is going to be calling out for her Nightflyer.The whole time I’m gone..
Peace
Nightflyer
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[My special ( LT) is going to be calling out for her Nightflyer.The whole time I’m gone..]
Awwww, that’s very tocuching, Nightflyer. You’re a lucky man to have such a true blue girl.
All your buds, including me, will be concerned for you and hoping you stay safe.
Courage, bro’
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[All your buds, including me, will be concerned for you and hoping you stay safe.
Courage, bro’]
Just what I was thinking, Jimi.
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[My special ( LT) is going to be calling out for her Nightflyer.The whole time I’m gone..]
I miss you already and I don’t even know you.
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Well… we never met. I will think about you every day you’re away.
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It’s offical.I thank you all.Thanxs, jimi and amber and the crew.It means alot to us all. BeBe, your a different story.You don’t get a pass.It’s a good thing.The words you speak are straight and to the Heart.”No one speaks for me”.So, I mean this when I say, it means alot to hear you words..Can you do better? I don’t know?..I’ve been out there.
Yet, something about the way your honesty rings true.You seem different and from the heart..I guess, when you mentioned your old man..(Dad) I kinda knew where you we’re coming from. Approval from the family means everything..Even when they don’t approve.
I guess, I’m saying your cool..I’m a pistol..But, that doesn’t make me a bad guy? actually,
The old timers love me..I’ll stand down..But, I’ll keep my eye on you..You might like me..
Peace
Nightflyer
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