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NY Daily News Christina Boyle sez:

Love in the Dumps marries heart-on-sleeve to tongue-in-cheek

[Finally, lonely hearts have somewhere to seek solace about their dismal love lives.]

[LoveintheDumps.com is the brainchild of two New Yorkers who hooked up, broke up, tried online dating and, at 33, are still firmly looking for Mr. and Mrs. Right.

"They say you gotta write what you know," joked Matt Brand.

Brand and his pal Isabel Chang, both freelance advertising creatives, met through a friend three years ago and briefly dated.]

Love in the Dumps website

Feb 18
Sarah
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37 comments

Amber

said on February 18, 2009 at 8:26 pm:
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Good find, Sarah. You’re the best!

And it’s SO reassuring that there could possibly be bigger losers than us.
Vanessa

said on February 18, 2009 at 8:27 pm:
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Oh great — another opportunity to be an online loser.
Milicia

said on February 18, 2009 at 8:29 pm:
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Very clever site.
Nightflyer

said on February 18, 2009 at 9:30 pm:
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A better one..The early days..

http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll263/Nightflyer_photo/DadanIdrinkingabeer.jpg

Hooah!…

Peace
Nightflyer..
Nightflyer

said on February 18, 2009 at 9:36 pm:
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Pops and me..Hunter Army Airfield (HAAF)

The stories we can tell.The first one would be..I’m a proud son and brother to my family..My moms just retired as educator and teacher..Hippie chic in the early days..Pop Army-Airborne, Nightalkers, and Blackhawk Pilot for the Operators- Army National Guard- Homeland Security.

This is going to be good..Drinks on me saturday night.
Oh, you ladies are very talented fun & Cool beans..

Peace
Nightflyer
Nightflyer

said on February 18, 2009 at 9:42 pm:
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Between Bryan and Sarah….I could hook up any party.I got skills.I got balls..I could sign and bring it..I’ll bring millie and her crew on my arms..Jimi got the beer and smokes.Lol..

Cya! slick….

Peace
Nightflyer
Bryan

said on February 18, 2009 at 11:46 pm:
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[Oh great — another opportunity to be an online loser]

Well let’s see, Vanessa — you’ve changed your cell phone number so your sext days should be over… you failed miserably at online dating — maybe Love in the Dumps is where you’ll find Mr. Wrong… cheer up — you know Stephen and I will always love you.
Bryan

said on February 18, 2009 at 11:47 pm:
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Nice jpegs, Nightflyer.
Nightflyer

said on February 19, 2009 at 5:50 pm:
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Bryan, thanxs, dude..Yeah, Chief Nightflyer and me have plenty of good times.He’s a great dad and a very good leader.You and Stephen would like him alot. He’s alot of fun! and he’s a stand up guy. He’s got pride and jump.He’s always looking out.The pix was taken in SC and not at HAAF. It was @ Sticky Fingers, A cool joint (Army) Hot sauces and wild times..

Peace
Nightflyer
Bryan

said on February 19, 2009 at 7:59 pm:
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RE: Darlene

Later….
Bryan

said on February 19, 2009 at 8:57 pm:
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Darlene should join Love in the Dumps website — Vanessa, too. After hearing Darlene’s latest ‘fling’ and Vanessa’s temptation to sext. Sarah Librarian — maybe you should add Down In the Dumps website to the library.
Sarah

said on February 19, 2009 at 9:03 pm:
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Been there, done that. That was yesterday’s news. Good thinking, though. Glad you would have caught my bad. You had my 6 — thanks from a sista. (Calling Mr. Nightflyer — what’s the right term for I got your back?)

http://nailtales.com/wordpress/library/
Sarah

said on February 19, 2009 at 10:30 pm:
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I like this song:

Katy Perry - I Kissed a Girl (Official Video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tAp9BKosZXs
Nightflyer

said on February 19, 2009 at 11:42 pm:
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Sarah- (Calling Mr. Nightflyer — what’s the right term for I got your back?)

Very Nice. It’s called. “I got your Six” or “We got your six unbugged”.

Peace
Nightflyer
Sarah

said on February 20, 2009 at 6:22 pm:
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[I got your Six” or “We got your six unbugged"]

Thanks Mr. Nightflyer.

Milicia will like “we got your six unbugged” (the geek in her) — and I would put money on Amber, Vanessa and Bryan thinking “I got your Six” is hot. Come to think of it — so will Abby. Can’t wait to use that line on her — “I got your six, Abby.” She can count on that.

So Ellen DeGeneres and Portia want to start a family. Ellen DeGeneres is not only funny — she’s a very nice person — she never makes her guests feel uncomfortable. Special talent.
Amber

said on February 20, 2009 at 7:08 pm:
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Well I hope someone has my Six because I think I have a potential stalker. Milicia told me how to handle it — hopefully it won’t escalate.
Nightflyer

said on February 21, 2009 at 9:18 am:
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Amber- Your a sweet girl..Be kool and stay on top of it..There’s alot of fuckin’ wack jobs out there..Millie’s screwed on right and she’s a beautiful woman.So, I would listen. But, I was trained Not just to see THINGS around the corners But, to see things from both sides..

“Hearts and Minds”.If you should ever need my help ask.My ways are better when your dealing with a foot mobile.Keep it simple.Keep a keen eye on things.ie home & travel and work.A foot mobile can only make his move one of serveral ways.MO=Time & place..

Peace
Nightflyer
Amber

said on February 21, 2009 at 9:53 am:
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[A foot mobile can only make his move one of serveral ways.MO=Time & place..]

Thanks Nightflyer for your advise and support. You’re a good man. Your parents must be proud. Interesting how proud parents instill ‘pride’ in their children. Rightfully so.

And Sarah was right - “I got your six” is HOT. ummmm
Milicia

said on February 21, 2009 at 10:01 am:
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Thanks for the compliments, Nightflyer.

Sarah was right about what’s hot and what’s not.

[“we got your six unbugged”]

Very hot.
I remember my mother telling me that when she was a teenager men in uniforms were very sexy. She got that right. Now I know why. : ))
Nightflyer

said on February 21, 2009 at 10:12 am:
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I’m a Team member of the SOF…In june I’m beginning my path to my (SFAS): Special Forces Assessment and Selection process. I’ve already did my model..The 1st Battalion is responsible for all field training in the SF Pipeline. The 3rd Battalion conducts language training and 4th Battalion conducts all military occupational specialty (MOS) training.

The Special Forces Training Pipeline requires a commitment of 1-2 years of intensive coursework based on the soldier’s military specialty training. Although a soldier is authorized to wear the coveted “Green Beret” at the end of Phase IV, he still must complete all six phases of training before being awarded the Special Forces Tab and is assigned to an Operational Detachment – Alpha (ODA). My first phase begins in june with..

Phase I: Special Forces Assessment and Selection (SFAS): 24 days baby..Pcs a cake..

1st Special Warfare Training Group (Airborne)

When I’ve completed my first four phases.I’ll be home in August..You can wear my green beret and unit pin and black jacket with Siver Wings.It’s a two year Phase. 1 - 6 . But, your a member of the Series X18 Airnorne Special Forces.I’ve already Qualified for my packet.

(SFQC):Special Forces Qualification Course. Nobody will fuck with you again. To much respect. Skull & cross bones..They only stand and salute you. Spec 4 Mafia..Wiggin’

Peace Operator..Ya Dig..

Nightflyer
Spec 4 Mafia
Sarah

said on February 21, 2009 at 10:30 am:
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Very cool Mr. Nighttflyer.

These links are for online civvies:

http://www.173rdairborne.com/Lingo.htm

http://www.b2501airborne.com/ArmyLingo.htm

http://www.vetfriends.com/lingo/
Nightflyer

said on February 21, 2009 at 10:31 am:
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJbGd5N6o9o

Peace Operators..Ya! Dig..

Nightflyer
BeBe

said on February 21, 2009 at 11:44 am:
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Interesting website. For those who say “it’s all about the blow” I agree. Everyone has good days and bad days but the days that include a good blow? Nothing can ruin those days. I have a couple of dating stories. I don’t see an email address. I could just type them but I would rather have one of the regulars tell the story for me.

Thanks in advance for the email address:

Bebe
Sarah

said on February 21, 2009 at 11:47 am:
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Good catch, BeBe. My bad.

You can email stories to:

NailTalesSalon@aol.com

I’ll make sure to add our email address to the blog. Look forward to receiving your email.

Sarah (librarian/webmaster)
BeBe

said on February 21, 2009 at 11:52 am:
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Thanks Sarah.

Great youtube Nightflyer — Crimson and Clover. Nice visuals.
Bryan

said on February 21, 2009 at 12:34 pm:
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Stephen found this article in December 1, 2008 Glamour Magazine:

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2008/12/when-should-you-sleep-with-him?mbid=msn

Author Penny Wrenn sez:

['When Should You Sleep With Him?'

Not long ago, hoping to silence my moaning about a particularly rough dating drought, a girlfriend volunteered to fix me up with her old friend T. One e-mail from him and I was smitten. After a day of message volleying, we agreed to talk on the phone that night.

T. sounded as charming as he was online. I wanted to speed things along—finally I’d found someone worthy of my attention—and I suggested we meet right that minute. He agreed and rushed over to my apartment. From then on we were coupled up, quite literally, since we spent most of our time horizontal in his place or mine.

Soon enough, though, the mornings after brought a sinking “this isn’t going to work” feeling. Charmingly boyish now seemed plain immature, and enthusiastic was more like hyper. The more time we spent vertical, actually talking, the less I liked him.]
Sarah

said on February 21, 2009 at 12:36 pm:
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You guys are SO GAY!

Good find, though Stephen. Thanks. I’ll add it to our library.

http://www.nailtales.com/wordpress/Library
Bryan

said on February 21, 2009 at 12:38 pm:
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Well they don’t call you a LIBRARIAN just because you’re an information source.

BTW — Stephen also reads Vogue. Yes, we are SO GAY.
Nightflyer

said on February 21, 2009 at 12:47 pm:
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BeBe-(Great youtube Nightflyer — Crimson and Clover. Nice visuals.)

That’s exactly what my ladies say about me in the Admin Bldg- they hear me coming on one of toys.Bare bones Harley with kicked out crome.But,they Blush, when they see me out on free time.Wearing my black jones of NY and jeans driving my Audi A-4 Hard.

I’m a Airbone SOF Infantry soldier heading off to SF qualifaction and selection school and then to OCS school as a LT..I’m set as a proven hard charger. I’ve been down range..

It’s too much taste in a short time..They need to rachet down and enjoy me like wine.I’ve dated beautiful female officers in my class A’s in public.It’s a No No in uniform and Army regs. My CO’s looks the other way because my (MOS) isn’t Admin Legal JAG 27D or Aviation Ops 15P or 92 QM- My contract was 11X option 4 Aiborne Infantry.My combat deployment stripes and GWT ribbons with my Airborne Assault and Airborne Wings in tow.

My new contract is X18 SF Airborne Infantry with OCS school included as an LT Operator..

I pretty much do what it is I want do. I was a team Leader in sandboarding.I guess that makes me a Bad Boy that taste good with really good visual effects. Welcome bebe..

Peace
Nightflyer
Nightflyer

said on February 21, 2009 at 1:17 pm:
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I dig you Sarah–Aaah, the webmaster / librarian/ intel tech.Very Nice.You got skills. Bryan and Stephen seem like fun.Bryan’s funny and he’s skilled too. I think you cats are cool..

I’m going out for P/T Training with friends..Then we’re going out and getting shit faced and having some fun. I’m be home to relax for a roll or few around 2100 hrs.I’ll hit you back..

All the cats and kittens are fun here..Cya! dudes..

Peace Spec 4 Mafia
Nightflyer
Nightflyer

said on February 22, 2009 at 1:32 am:
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The best fucking Army band known to man..3 Doors Down..When things get alone fast….

Here with you out..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3J8q4cBSkTQ

It’s not my time..Cheer up..Wigg out..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18pelixcmvQ

You know I say? I got plenty of Balls..
Nightflyer

said on February 22, 2009 at 1:37 am:
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No- we’re not feeling good..It’s a fucking mistake..Here with out you..Not my time..

You know what I say.I got plenty of balls..I guess will stand down now. Hit up chow & rack..
Jimi

said on February 22, 2009 at 8:13 am:
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I love 3 Doors Down, Nightflyer.

Beer and smokes…any time soldier. You got our backs, I got your toys.

Be very careful out there.
Vanessa

said on February 22, 2009 at 11:48 am:
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Hey Jimi, glad to see you back.

I’ve been hearing about a drink called a “Rusty Nail.” Perfect excuse to go to a bar. Mostly likely I’ll get a bit tipsy (or more likely a bit DRUNK). What do you think, Amber? Should we try it?
Amber

said on February 22, 2009 at 11:51 am:
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Sounds like a plan, Van. Maybe Mary and BeBe will want to join us.

Talk later…. need to swim my laps.
Nightflyer

said on February 22, 2009 at 11:57 am:
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Jimi- thanxs, dude..We got up early for P/T Training..Actually, I feel good.Yeah, 3 doors down is ass kicking.. It’s weird, The big drink last night was something called a Rusty Nailes..and now Vanessa, is saying the samething..

My friend cp has been trying to sell us hard on Rusty nailes for sometime now..Last Night it was huge hit with the ladies in the house.I can’t belive Vanessa is talking about it.It’s good.

Good Karma..

Peace
Nightflyer
Jimi

said on February 22, 2009 at 2:00 pm:
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Thanks, Vanessa. I hit some heavy Crosstown Traffic goin’ thru the Purple Haze, but I’m real happy to be back with my “Foxy Lady” and the rest of y’all.

Been a long time since I’ve tried a Rusty Nail but I’m psyched. Can’t wait to get back into that one.

Well, time to restring my axe……later, good people.