Attentive Man With Erectile Dysfunction
I met Peter, a doctor, through a friend of my father’s. He was charming. I asked my usual early relationship question, “Are you seeing anyone?” Peter said, “No — I was but it’s over.” I thought “WOW” — I finally got lucky.
First date Peter took me to his house at the beach — and afterwards insisted we drive an hour to meet my father. I thought, “WOW” again.
Second date — Peter accompanied me to a luncheon upstate and then a family related dinner. Now I’m thinking, “What a guy….” Peter was attentive, punctual, would call in in-between dates — like clockwork.
Third date? Skiing with my children. Things seemed perfect — a man who was into me AND my family. What more could I ask for?
Well… one Friday afternoon Peter called me from his private phone at his office, and after we hung up I realized I had forgotten to tell him something. I called back 5 seconds later — no answer. I thought, “That’s strange…… “
When I finally talked to Peter at the end of the weekend and told him I tried to reach him he was silent. I said, “Peter, are you sure you’re not seeing anyone.” He said, “I was — it’s over — but it’s complicated.”
My heart sank. I knew what was coming. I said, “Peter, is it complicated because you own the beach house together?” He admitted this was so. So I asked another question.
ME: Peter — do you own your apartment in the city with your girlfriend?
PETER: Yes — it’s very complicated.
ME: Yeah. Do you work with your girlfriend? You do? Are you partners in your practice? You are?
Then Peter told me he thought I had given him an STD (this was impossible). He said he was going to his doctor that morning. I told him to please call me and let me know what the doctor said. I immediately called my doctor — she told me Peter was full of crap (she knows my medical history) — but I insisted on going through every test possible to confirm that HE had not given me anything. He did not. My doctor said he probably didn’t even go to his doctor.
Well…. I pulled a Milicia. I called the girlfriend at their office and left a voice mail on her confidential voice mail. I figured if I called the house — he would erase it.
My message? “Hi, this is Amber. I have been dating your boyfriend. He thinks I gave him an STD. I have not — I have been tested and there is nothing wrong with me. I thought you should know he is sleeping with other women.”
What was Peter’s response when I told him I had left a message?
Peter: I don’t get back — I get even.
And then he had the nerve to tell me his unfaithful behavior days were OVER.
What a jerk. Do you know what I learned from Peter? That sometimes men call faithfully so you don’t call them. And sometimes they’re punctual because they have erectile dysfunction and they time the date with the ED RX.
What a limp excuse for a man. (CLICK ON LINK)
So What - Pink
36 comments
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I remember Peter, Amber. Wasn’t he the ethically challenged doctor who left a medication you had left in his car with your doorman?
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One and the same, Milicia. That’s why I called his girlfriend. I said to him, “You violated my privacy — now I’m going to violate yours.”
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I remember him, too — he’s the pretty boy who couldn’t stop looking at himself in the mirror. Between you and me — I think he’s still in the closet. I know a gay man when I see one.
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How could you not have known he was living with his girlfriend? Didn’t you ever go to his apartment?
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He always came to my apartment — or we took day trips. I did see a picture of what I thought was his ex-girlfriend at the beach house — but I figured she was in the picture because it was a group picture. What was he going to do? Cut her out of the picture?
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[What was he going to do? Cut her out of the picture?]
Well actually, Amber, that’s what my Aunt Sophie would do. When someone got divorced — they would cut the face of the person out of the picture and replace the ex with a picture of another family member. It was funny — because people would go to Aunt Sophie’s house and look at the pictures and say, “I don’t remember being at that party….. was I at that party? You should have heard my other aunts’ reply … “SURE YOU WERE… ” I think they convinced themselves.
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Keep your mind clean and the body pure..Maybe a little drink and toke is ok. But, when you spend your time lying and cheating and covering your trail it becomes nonsense.It shows..
You’ll never find the time to do the simple things right! Like,rolling around on the floor..
Peace
Nightflyer
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This guy! sounds like he’s low speed high drag..A lightweight. I have two problems with this stroke job..First he put on a good show in front of Your dad and Your kids.Is dirty down..
Second..To even mention the Fact that he has STD’s and mentioned that he might of contacted it from you is insane..It’s time to turn a table and smack the shit out of this lightweight..Guys like this have the same MO..They shake in their shit when they meet a Hard Charger like myself..When I walk into a joint..There’s two things that come to mind when you see me..I’m sharp and attract everyone’s attention when I walk into a room..I have a pleasent smile and look relaxed..Two..I like like the last guy you want Fuck with.I have respect. Don’t ever take my kindness for a weakness..or that of my women.
It’s in my nature..I’m a man and walk and talk as much..Fuck this loser..Keep him down..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Thanks, Nightflyer.
It really bothered me that he messed with my family — I have NO idea why. Maybe that’s how he gets turned on — some kind of weird fetish.
I did make sure to contact the people who he met through me and the person who introduced us — and let them know he’s NO friend of mine. I even asked them, “Was there anything about this man that would lead you to believe he was living with a woman?”
For some reason he kept the woman a secret. Very strange.
RE: The STD — he’s a sick puppy. He probably knew I would run to my doctor — he probably wanted confirmation I didn’t have anything. He’s a weenie.
[Don’t ever take my kindness for a weakness.]
I know you’re the real thing, Nightflyer. That’s what I like about you.
Peace.
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You’re a good man, Nightflyer. I listen to the stories the girls tell about men and shake my head. I might be gay but I’m straight when it comes to telling the truth. I don’t have anything to hide.
[ But, when you spend your time lying and cheating and covering your trail it becomes nonsense.It shows.]
This guy was wearing a sign.
Peace, Nightflyer. Don’t forget to stop by the salon — bring your girlfriend. Blow-dry on the house. After all…. you know what they say @ Nail Tales Salon…. “It’s all about the blow….”
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this is how we roll..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fo3LA4weONQ
Bryan, this statement says alot about you…
(.I might be gay but I’m straight when it comes to telling the truth. I don’t have anything to hide)
The words on my team are straight shit and just as true…
Amber- Your sweethert..Soldier on..One day?.Maybe you’ll get to meet the real deal..
Lets get a drink…
Peace
Nightflyer
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Nightflyer — is that your girl singing Second Chance?
Sweet.
Go to sleep!
Nite.
Peace….
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I’m not angrey..I’m just saying,,We could hang out..and it would be cool..But, I need to soldier on..I don’t have time for games and fuckin’ losers..I drive on..It’s my choice…
It’s in my nature..Straight shit…
Peace
Nightflyer
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She’s a pearl. I’m past losing friends..I live and I love with Loyalty - Honesty- Passioin..
We sing it..and bring it…It’s who we are..Nite Nite..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Passion $ cost nothing.. Keep it simple…
Peace
Nightflyer
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Nite Nite…
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Time to sleep.
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I’m off to work..It’s 0530 hrs. time to Drive on. Yeah, She’s cool…
Peace
Nightflyer
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Did any talk to Vanessa today? She’s upset about something. I guess she’ll eventually tell us what happened. All I know is she is way down in the dumps.
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Let’s just call it an “Oops…. I did it again night.” I’ll fill you in later.
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Just tell me this — does it involve your cell phone?
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Ummmmm. Can I plead the 5th for now? I’m too tired to talk about it right now. I will tell you — I promise. Soon.
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Try flying in a blackhawk @0700 hrs with my brigade commander and my unit team still high from the Night before..Sorry, about last night I had a bunch of J/O’s hanging around me
One even jumped on my lap top and fucked around..My crew chief team leader asked me..
Nightflyer-You doing anything special with your girl next sat Night? I said, what’s so special about next sat? he said, it’s Red Hearts day! I said, Ohooo
He said, you getting her something special? I thought of you guys and smiled..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Fresh cut flowers, Nightflyer.
Not an arrangement — fresh cut. I love flowers. She’ll need to have a vase — the florist can provide that. It’s like everything else — keep it simple.
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Well whatever happened, Vanessa — good move changing your phone numbers. I tried reaching you at home and on your cell — both numbers disconnected.
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Yeah — now my phones show as private or restricted when I place a call. With caller ID — you call someone one time and they have your phone number 4 ever. Plus — if you dial the wrong number — you end up having someone call saying “Did you call me?” NO- WRONG NUMBER. sorry.
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I will text you guys my new number. That will show my number. It will also keep me from texting the guys who never come through. It’s a pain in the neck changing telephone numbers. No guy is worth going through that again. They can call me or we won’t talk.
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Only one problem with that, Vanessa. They can’t call you if they don’t have your phone number. But then again — that WILL solve your problem.
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[They can’t call you if they don’t have your phone number.]
Yeah, you’re right Bryan. Too much to think about tonight. All I know is that I won’t be receiving disingenuous sexts for a while. That’s a win and a step in the right direction.
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Oh Vanessa. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You were genuine and sincere. You always are.
BTW — I’ve been following a story about underage teenagers sending nude pictures of themselves to their boyfriends and vice versa. Now, they’re trying to prosecute the kids for underage pornography. Watch for the story.
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Jimi- Thanxs, bro..We do easy.I go out from time to time dressed in a black Daks sport jacket and silver..I walk like a man and expect others to do the same. That’s how I roll..
If you learned how to drive with us.You’d be a made man.But,we’re cool..We like have fun
On friday and saturday Nights we do it in style. Unless we’re at a house party.
Hard Core..We demand it that way.We could jam with you anytime dude..Your cool ..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Hey- Millie..Thanxs, it’s working out well..I owe you bebe..
Vanessa- Your a sweetheart. ..Your a special..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Your a special Lady.Take it from a man who has it good. You deserve better.It’ll happen..
A man like myself will find you one day and Not let go..
Peace
Nightflyer
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Thanks Nightflyer.
I spent Valentine’s Day with my father and my sister. It was a perfect 2009 Valentine’s Day. My sister told me that Judge Judy considers text messages a contract. Milicia will find that interesting. I’m hoping Sarah will be able to find a youtube or a link to Judge Judy on topic.
Y ( ‘U’ )
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Hummm. I thought a text could/might be a contract. Interesting that Judge Judy discussed it. I’ll have to ask my father because he LOVES Judge Judy. I didn’t know anyone other than my father watched that program.
How about it, Sarah — think you can find something from the Judge on topic? Who knows… maybe she has a website.
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I’m on it, Vanessa and Milicia — I’ll see if I can find the Judge on text contracts.
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